The whys of the grief journey 💔, relationships, and soul bonds [Video]

We often want to search for a reason: “Why did this have to happen to him?”

“Why am I going through this [loss]?!?

“Is this [death] supposed to teach me something!?!”

“There HAS to be a reason!”

There isn’t a reason to the loss of someone you loved. Death isn’t pre planned prior to birth, in my opinion at this point and time in my spiritual journey.

If there was a reason, then one person would have been physically taken from the lives of *countless people* who loved them for the sake of ‘a few lessons’ of other humans. It seems impossible (and absurd) to me, that say, all 15-20 people who deeply loved a ten year old child taken by cancer in a family were all ‘due’ a lesson.

That said, we do experience grief here in the physical world, which is something that we can’t and don’t experience in the spirit world. One reason we are here in a general sense is to experience emotions that we can’t experience there. Because we have ego here and we do not there. We also don’t need to miss anyone there.

But we will all experience grief during our lifetimes here in the physical world – there is not a reason for ‘specific grief’ circumstances.

Rather, the learning and the reasons are in the living. They’re in the relationships.

There is not a reason for your loved one’s death.

There IS a reason for your loved one’s life.

There IS a reason for your relationship in this physical lifetime : the relationship the two of you shared.

And that is regardless of relationship type, duration, and status at the time of physical passing.

There is a reason your souls came together in this physical lifetime. That is where the focus should be, in my opinion.

THAT feeling. THAT reasoning. THAT why. The why is in the why the two of you came together and loved and impacted one another.

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